 There are benefits and drawbacks to doing a first look on your wedding day. While the trend has grown increasingly popular, it isn’t for everyone. It’s best to discuss your options with each other, your wedding planner, and your photographer before deciding whether or not to do one. However, we advise having those conversations sooner rather than later. That’s because doing a first look (or not doing one) will significantly impact your wedding day timeline! Today, we’re discussing why you may or may not want to do a first look so you can make the best decision for your unique situation. What is a First Look?A “first look” is an opportunity for you and your partner to see each other in your wedding attire, decompress, and even read private vows before your wedding ceremony. One partner usually sneaks up behind the other and taps them on the shoulder so the photographer can capture their reaction! As Colorado wedding planners, we believe in the many benefits of a first look. We frequently recommend one to our clients! Still, it’s a highly personal choice. Some couples prefer to adhere to tradition, not want to detract from the moment they see each other at their ceremony. If that’s you, talk to your photographer about alternative options. They can still capture a private, meaningful moment between you and your partner, such as a first touch or love letter exchange. Should You Do a First Look? If you’re still trying to decide whether or not to do a first look, it’s helpful to consider the benefits and drawbacks. Let’s explore how doing a first look (or not doing one) affects different facets of your wedding day. TimelineChoosing whether or not to do a first look will primarily affect your wedding day timeline. If you’re doing a first look, you must be ready earlier in the day so there’s time for photos before your ceremony. For some night owls, that might be a dealbreaker, depending on the time of your ceremony. However, note that doing a first look also makes it possible to get all your portraits out of the way before your ceremony. If you’re interested in *actually* attending your cocktail hour instead of missing the whole thing while you’re off taking photos, you may want to opt for a first look. Tip: If you prefer sticking to tradition and skipping a first look, we recommend taking as many portraits before your ceremony as possible. For example, you can take your separate wedding party photos before your ceremony. That way, you can budget less time for portrait-taking during cocktail hour. Private Time TogetherAnother benefit of doing a first look is the opportunity for a private moment together. Let’s face it: wedding days can get busy! It may surprise you that most couples reflect on their wedding day and wish they had spent more time together. Amid greeting your guests, posing for photos, and observing all the fun traditions, it’s easy to get swept away. Doing a first look refocuses you on the WHY of your wedding day (your love for each other!) and provides an opportunity for alone time before all the craziness ensues. You can even use that time to read private vows or love letters to each other. Pre-Wedding JittersIf you’re nervous about walking down the aisle, posing for portraits, and any other aspect of your wedding day, it can be helpful to do a first look. You’ll have the opportunity to release your stress privately and receive encouragement from your partner. After spending a moment alone with them, you may find your nerves are gone! However, it may be best to skip a first look if having a photographer present for that moment would only enhance your nerves. Remember, there’s no right or wrong choice here: only what’s best for you! PhotographyDoing a first look affects your photography timeline, as previously mentioned, but did you know it also affects the overall look and feel of your photos? Note that if you do a first look followed by portraits, the lighting may not be optimal because the sunlight will be at its harshest around midday. However, by not doing a first look, you’ll miss the opportunity to capture meaningful photos of the two of you seeing each other for the first time. You can always take portraits before AND after your ceremony if it’s important to you to catch that perfect golden hour lighting. Choosing to do or not to do a first look is highly personal. At Sapphire Celebrations, we’re partial to first looks because of the benefit to your wedding timeline and the opportunity to enjoy a moment alone with your partner. However, we completely understand that the drawbacks of a first look, such as waking up early to get ready and sub-optimal portrait lighting, are a dealbreaker for some. No matter which option you’re leaning toward, discuss it with your wedding planner and photographer first. Are you still looking for your Colorado wedding photographer? Prepare for your next discovery call with these seven questions to help you find your perfect fit. Hoping for more help? Reach out to us! We're always happy to guide our couples through the wedding planning process. Vendors:Comments are closed.
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Angela Johnston
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Sapphire Celebrations combines the energy, perspective and creativity of two generations when planning weddings and events throughout Colorado. Founded by a mother and daughter team, Sapphire Celebrations reflects their Colorado heritage. With family roots dating back to 1907 and covering the northeastern plains and Rocky Mountain vistas, there is no team better qualified to plan your Colorado wedding or special event. Pamela and Angie are proud of the high level of service for which Sapphire Celebrations has come to be known. Two principal wedding designers and four event concierges take pride in exceeding the expectations of couples who entrust us with their wedding day. Archives
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